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Started by Kadana Sorano, July 26, 2017, 10:05:43 AM

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Kadana Sorano

It has been brought to my attention, that there has been talk about re-homing people's pets if the person isn't active.  I don't know exactly where this talk came from, where it originated, or how the discussion ended; let alone what was decided.  But I wanted to come on for a quick minute and make sure everyone knows, I still have my Secundi login, I'm still alive, I still very much want to keep my pets.

To any adoptable shop owners who are considering re-homing inactive users pets, I would like to request, please, that you do not rehome mine.  I'm not in a good place (emotionally/mentally speaking) right now for being active on Secundi.  I don't know how long before I feel up to being social again.  But I have not forgotten about this site, my pets, or the friends and family I have made here.

One of the things I really love/d about Secundi vs other sites I used to frequent pre-Secundi, is that I could disappear for unknown lengths of time, for whatever reason, and know that I was safe to do that; because when I was able to return, my account and all my pets would still be here waiting for me.  It was always a really bad feeling on other sites, to have to stress and worry about how long I was absent, and wonder if I would lose things I cared about; simply because I couldn't be on for whatever reason, for however long.  I loved that I didn't have to worry and stress over Secundi shops that way.  It makes me feel rather sad, to think that this might be changing.  I hope that this isn't anything official and that the talk was just that, talk.

But in case it isn't, in case some shop owners are considering doing this, I just wanted to say I'm still alive, and I still very much want my pets.  I'm just not in a good place for being socially active on here right now, nor do I know when I will feel up to it.  I'm sorry for that, the uncertainty on my return, as well as the lack of my presence; but atm I just do not feel in a good place for being here.

I hope you all can understand, and just know that I haven't forgotten you; nor will I.  I hope everyone is doing OK, and I'll see you all again.. whenever I am able.

Jennifer
Storm Chasers Current Thread: http://www.secundi.net/forum.php?topic=3836.0
Storm Chasers Customs Thread: http://www.secundi.net/forum.php?topic=3691.0
Okibi Stud and RB Service: http://www.secundi.net/forum.php?topic=4266.0
Quinsta Studs Free to Use: http://www.secundi.net/forum.php?topic=4308.0

My Eggs/Pets.. they would appreciate some love :) 


                    

Sunchaser

Snugs. No worries here for any that I run. That had never been a option for me. Also I added you on Skype hope we can chat sometime I miss ya.

Ryuukokoro

As an admin for Secundi it has not been brought to my attention at ALL about rehoming pets for people who are not active and I have to say I am not pleased to hear about this. This has never been a Secundi policy in the past and, as Kadana's post indicates, inactive does not mean gone from the internet.

Taking art that has been gifted to/won by others is not keeping in line with the spirit that Secundi was created in. We left PI because of unfair treatment which impacted the people following our shops. If any non-agency shops plan on doing this, I think it will impact on whether or not they can apply to be agencies in the future, and if any agency shops adopt this as a policy, Silvanon will be contacted and it will be discussed that shop still qualifies for agency status.

YourLoveOnly

*hugs Kadana* It is good to see you. Sorry to hear you aren't in a great place. I hope this will change at some point and we will see more of you, but either way do NOT worry about Secundi <3

I did see that conversation take place so if I can put your mind at ease: some people thought it would be nice if people who decide they never want to return (there have been some who said this) would consider some of their pets going up for rehoming. However this will NOT be done without an inactive user logging on to post that this is what they want to happen. No adoptable will be taking back anyone's pets without the owner's express permission, everyone agreed that would be totally unfair and not OK to do. Your pets are safe. And even if you should ever decide to leave permanently no one will or should make you feel like you need to give up any pets. Much love <3

Ryuukokoro

I think that would be fine. :) Having someone come in and say they don't mind about their pets finding new owners is very different than a shop just automatically repossessing them because someone hasn't been logged in for a while.

YourLoveOnly

Yeah afaik no shop planned or plans on doing that and everyone agreed that would be a not-OK thing to do. So I don't think anyone has to be worried about such a thing happening <3

Country

*hugs* if you ever need anything please let me know and I will do what I can to help out. And know that your hoards of donkeys and critters from my shop will always be here waiting for you!

SkySong

Take care of yourself, Kadana! Your pets will be here when you are ready for them. :)

I don't think I can say anything someone else hasn't said already, but I second everything that's already been said.
Adoptable threads: None currently ~ Trading thread: N/A ~ Breeding thread

LC Custom Status: Closed
LC Breeding Status: Closed

PonyMama

all secundi owwned pets are yours to keep if they come from my shops

get into a good mental and physical spot in your life, RL is always more important

Neocridders

I had no idea anyone was discussing that. But I'm glad to know that no one has to worry about that. It's just not how things should work here.


Midnight Phantom

Best wishes for you Kadana!

I am glad it was brought up because it gives clarity and safety for those who aren't on for a while about their agency pets. Without it, there was the pattern that it didn't happen but could happen if that shop change policies or something else. Thanks Kadana for asking and thank you Ryuu for answering ^.^